learning twist

So I learnt a very important something about me yesterday. I have been sabotaging myself in relationships by hanging all my hopes on one guy, and it's no wonder I'm let down. I'm wrecking future relationships with all my possibilities. Possibilities of what could be; when I meet someone that i might like to be with i stop in my tracks. I stop looking around and focus on that one person and it's no wonder I end up disappointed. People can't give what they don't know is expected of them. I have to stop with this focus on just one person and keep my radar on, keep scanning. Leave it open to all of the possibilities that it could be instead of catergorising it into 'future relationship.' It frees me up to expect less of one person and more of all the people in my life! The freedom of relationships is not being able to compartmentalise everything all at one time...